HOW TO SHOW SUPPORT AND FRIENDSHIP TO CHILDREN WITH AUTISM IN YOUR COMMUNITY
There’s a good chance that you’ll know a child with autism before your own kids have finished high school. Autism spectrum disorder affects as many as 1 out of every 54 children in the United States. An autism diagnosis can leave many children and their families feeling isolated from their community, but you can help break that isolation. Read on for more tips on autism and communicating.
What is Autism Spectrum Disorder?
Tips For Communicating with Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder
- First, meet them where they are. If a child doesn’t use words, pay attention to their gestures. “For example, if you see them reaching for a cup of juice, say ‘juice’ and hand it to them,” says Reagon.
- Second, watch the people around them. “Observe how they communicate with their siblings, with their peers or how their parents or teachers interact with them,” Reagon advises. Take your cue from them.
- If you’re going to be interacting regularly with a child who has ASD—for example a neighbor, relative or classmate from your child’s school—ask their parent about tools for facilitating communication. Families may use sign language, apps like ProLoquo2Go or tools like the picture exchange communication system (pecsUSA.com).
Encourage your child to show an interest in what the other child is doing.
- Helping your kids be kind. Teaching your own kids how to communicate with children who have autism doesn’t need to be complicated, says Reagon. Have your children say hello and introduce themselves as they normally would, even if the other child responds in unexpected ways. Encourage your child to show an interest in what the other child is doing. “If they want to go down the slide at the playground over and over, your child can help them do that,” says Reagon. “Like you would with any other child, teach them to be kind and patient,” she adds. “Really try to be a friend. It might take a little longer, but it means a lot to those children and their families.”
- Above all, encourage your children to be open and friendly to every other child in their community, even if they communicate a little differently. “Each student and family I have worked with has taught me so much,” says Reagon. “I really think that if you take the time to get to know children with autism, and get to know their families, it can change your life for the better.”
is a freelance writer, CharlottesvilleFamily’s Family Health Editor and mother to two busy children.
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